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It Is Not Difficult To Talk With Strangers.

2008/8/11 15:29:00 41769

It is not difficult to talk with strangers if you know the way.

Here are some more effective and simple strategies:

 

首先,寻找那些可能愿意向你敞开心扉交谈的人。大多数人都喜欢有机会结识一些新的面孔。那些独 自一人、没有事情忙的人,正是你的首选。   

 

If the other person smiles at you, looks at you more than once, opens your arms to you, or crosses your legs, which shows that the other person is more interested in you.

  

 

If they are heterosexual, they will attract your attention in other ways, such as combing your hair, arranging your clothes, rubbing something on your body or a cup or chair, or intentionally letting you notice them watching you and letting your eyes stay on your body for a short time.

  

 

Once you have chosen the target of conversation, the next step is to smile, look, and speak.

  

 

Although many people are trying to find the beginning of "perfect", research shows that what you say is actually not important.

However, a negative start will not encourage the other person to continue talking, and will also add a deep tone to the new relationship.

  

 

What you say does not have to be very intelligent or full of meaning.

The important thing is to seize the opportunity to communicate with each other.

If the other person is interested, he will reveal some free information, which will help you find common interests and talk about more personal topics.

  

 

The content of the conversation is very simple. Basically there are only three topics to choose from: the environment, the other side, and oneself, and there are only three ways to start: asking questions, making statements and presenting facts.

 

At first, your main goal is to show interest or interest, so the best way to start is to ask questions.

(restrictive questions are OK, as long as we don't list too many).

It is also good to express your opinion, and it is better than just telling the facts.

If you simply state the truth, "the bus is late today."

Or "Apple has gained 5 cents per pound."

You didn't involve the other side, so he needed to ask questions or express his views to ask for your participation - but he probably wouldn't do so.


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